Sunday, December 26, 2010

Christmas Service in Los Calabazos

Spent the morning at one of the small church plants named Los Calabazos. It is December 26 and only 9 people there today, including my family. It's always a small group. We praised God, celebrated His birth. After a time of worship. I shared a message. At times, I feel discouraged and unsure of how to help such a small church. Today as we celebrated Christmas together, I was struck with the low level of fan fare when Christ was born. Yes, the angels sang and that had to be amazing...but it seems most others missed what was going on that first Christmas.

Spending Christmas in the Dominican Republic is a different experience that we are used to. We miss all the celebrations that our church in Minnesota has each year. Today, we enjoyed a small celebration with some simple mountain folk. Christmas for them isn't about giving presents. There are not any big programs. In fact, the service wasn't any different then any other Sunday.

Trying to make a little different, we requested that we sing some Christmas songs and they could only think of one song. They sang it and we sang Joy to the World to them (in English). Julito said he had heard that tune but didn't know the words. When we asked how they celebrated their Christmas Eve and Day...they said they fasted. Most Dominicans have a big meal and they decided to fast.

Once again, I feel I am learning more from Dominicans then I could ever teach. My message to them was to avoid distractions and focus on Jesus a Christmas and at all times. Fasting is a great application of that message. There is a beauty in stripping away distractions. It helps us focus on what is really important.

I got to see a little of that today. I am not saying that we all need to fast or that programs are bad...I love them. And I know that programs are meant to help us focus on Christ. It is just refreshing to see a different way to celebrate.

Friday, December 24, 2010

Ministry Snapshot

We thought it might be good to give a snapshot of each of the areas we are working.

El Montana: Working to disciple men and women to become the leaders of the church. We have seen a lot of growth. 2010 was spent helping people turn from sinful patterns, teaching them to forgive, and presenting God's plan for the family. Rick spoke many times in the church and both Becky and Rick lead weekly Bible study groups.

Boma: We have been invited to help the church leaders think about how they minister. Each Wednesday morning we meet with them. We have focused on topics like - Spiritual education for children (in the church and in the home), God's grace, and helping people leave patterns of sin.

Los Calabazos: In 2010 Rick taught on the purpose of the church. This community has a great vision for the community. Rick challenged them to think about the role of their church in the community. In the fall, they decided to make some changes and they started meeting on Sunday mornings.

Buenos Aires: After a community survey in 2009, God led the people in Buenos Aires to start some new ministries. Alex and Carol shared this vision with us in January. 2010 was spent helping them start new ministries to children, youth and adults. In many ways, this is how we want to do ministry. We want to see how God is leading Dominicans and join them as they follow God's leading.

Seminario Biblico: Studying God's Word and relating it to the ministry opportunities and challenges within a local church. In 2010 we finished 3 courses - Old Testament History, Old Testament Prophets and the Life of Christ. 6 men from 3 different communities continue to meet weekly to go deeper. We study outside of class and meet to discuss what we have learned. Rick gives special attention to make sure that the teaching is practical, relating to every day life.

In all of these areas, our focus is to equip leaders. Relationships are key. While we do see many areas that need to be addressed, we listen to hear how God is working and give priority to those areas. At times, because of the patterns in the culture, the challenges in one community have caused us to do some "preventative" teaching in the communities. We are learning and we trust God to guide us as we serve.

There is much more that could be shared but in the interest of keeping this a "snapshot" I will close. If you think this is a good idea, let us know. Our desire is to keep you informed of what we are doing.

We thank you for your partnership. Your prayers are vital. Your communication is encouraging. Your gifts provide for us and the ministry. We feel blessed. We know you do this out of love for the Lord. It is a service to Him. How blessed we are to be a part of the body of Christ, to experience the fellowship within His body. We hope this snapshot is a blessing to you.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

AMAZING GRACE!

How many times have you sung this song? I bet I've sung it a hundred times. It's been translated into many languages, including Spanish. This morning at church we sang it again. In the past it has bothered me some to sing "translated" songs instead of those that have been written by Latino Christians. I know some of our traditional American hymns were actually written in other European languages and translated, but I still think that worship from the heart is best when the words are written in that country's language. It just seems so much more natural and heart felt.

But today I changed my mind, at least for this hymn. Rick and I recently watched "Amazing Grace," the story of William Wilberforce, the tenacious English politician who brought the British slave trade to an end in 1807. He sought spiritual counsel from and Anglican minister named, John Newton. Mr. Newton wrote "Amazing Grace."

John Newton was a slave trader, but in the midst of terrible storm called out to God and experienced His Amazing Grace. It took years before his faith grew to a point where he quit slave trading and entered the priesthood. Later he joined the abolitionist movement with William Wilburforce.

So as we are singing "Sublime Gracia" this morning, I looked around as young and old sang with eyes closed swaying slightly. Could it be that someone here has anscestors who were brought by John Newton himself? How amazing would grace be that the descendents of so many Africans that he cruelly abused for profit are now praising God using the hymn he wrote?!

It is highly unlikely that in our little church this morning there was a descendant of the slaves Mr. Newton trafficked. But still, somewhere this morning some descendent of those slaves sung God's praises and that is pretty amazing. It's amazing that the ocean of God's grace can cover such a sinner as John Newton. It is amazing that the river of God's grace can flow down generations from colonial slave to free Caribbeans. It is amazing that the fountain of God's grace can renew each of us sinners day by day.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Kid's Club in Buenos Aires

VBS is as much a tradition in the Nueva Vida village churches as it is for many churches in the U.S. In the past our teams from Calvary Free Church in Rochester, Minnesota would run a VBSwith help from Dominican translators and teenagers from the main church.

Last year the Montana church co-led a few days of VBS with our team and then finished after they left. This year we planned a VBS using Spanish materials on the life of Daniel. We held the club each Monday afternoon. Faith Community Church's VBS in Ohio bought the craft supplies and sent some money to buy snacks. Ingrid and Lumi led storytime. Rovian and Carla led games. Ramona and AnaMaria, with help from others, were the craft teachers. Rick and I were all-arounders, keeping things moving and subbing where needed.

We had a smaller turn out than expected, but 20-25 kids were enough for us to handle. The volunteers learned new skills in teaching and managing children. They also learned the importance of prayer as we had one session that was particularly difficult due to misbehavior. We regrouped, changed our strategy and prayed all week. The next session went smoothly and we all praised God for answered prayers.

The Christians in Montaña are now talking seriously about learning to be "Sunday School" teachers. This is encouraging since in the past they have expressed a desire to have a children's program during worship time, but wanted "someone else" to come and do it for them. We have an experienced Dominican Sunday School teacher from one of the other churches who is willing to train them. Securing materials and curriculum will be another step in the process. But we are excited to see the Christians taking this on as their responsibility to the many children who attend services in Montaña.

Thursday, August 05, 2010

Evangelizing in La Lomita!

In the Spring, Rick preached a message sharing at Nueva Vida's sharing it's history of church planting. Little did he know that the same process that he was describing, was beginning to happen again.
Emma grew up on a small mountain village called La Lomita. She left that village, like many others her age, in search of a job. And she ended up finding Christ. Over the past few months, Emma and her husband Alexi had been talking with others in the church about the need to bring the Gospel back to La Lomita.

This is how all of the church plants have started. Members of Nueva Vida want to bring the Gospel to their friends and relatives that live in the areas where they were raised. And now, there was a desire to do it again.

If you have been following our blog for some time, you may remember Jordan, a very sick boy. Jordan lived in La Lomita and died there about 1.5 years ago. Rick met Jordan and his mom at a medical outreach and later visited him to bring some medicine. This is shared in an our blog - "Mixed Feelings of Discovery" (December 1, 2008).

Where is La Lomita?
It it up on a mountain ridge behind the Jarabacoa's most visible mountain, Magote. There are no good roads to access it. An unmaintained dirt road brings you close. La Lomita is in an area of steep ridges. 33 houses are built on the side and top of different ridges.

Obviously, Getting there is a bit of a challenge. A 4x4 truck will get you close and you can walk the last part. With a motorcycle, you can go all the way there, but be careful. One recent trips, there have been a few accidents due to the steep inclines.

Sounds fun? Yes, for a day trip but if you are thinking of going there on a weekly basis....NO, not so fun.

Who lives there? What is the community like?
Typical of many mountain communities, most of the homes are occupied by older folks whose grown children have left the area to find work. Generally, the people live off the land. In some homes there is electricity. Others are totally self sufficient. In between the ridges are streams where people cool off. Presently there is only one church, a Catholic church that meets once a month.

What has happened in La Lomita?
On a Saturday in June about 20 people made their way to La Lomita. We got in groups of 3 and visited houses. Relationships were built and testimonies shared.

Different than the United States, people welcome you onto their porches to talk. Dominicans are very curious. They want to know who you are. They want to find out if they have mutual friends. And they generally, have the time to sit and talk. Bringing up God is not hard because all Dominicans believe in God. And most like to sit and listen to God's Word.
La Lomita was not different than other communities. We enjoyed getting to know them and before ending, shared the gospel.

In August, we returned a second time. A team came and ran a 1-day children's club and then I joined them in the afternoon to help show a movie.

Were there any decisions?
Yes, people prayed to receive Christ. But....

That's a hard question to answer. It's hard because people pray for many different reasons. Some pray to be polite. Others pray hoping to get something. And it is hard to know at this point, how many prayed because of a genuine understanding of the Gospel and a desire for Christ's forgiveness. We are called to share. God's Holy Spirit calls people to Himself. And we look forward to see the results. While God already knows, for us, time will tell the real results.

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Love is not selfish!

Man A - "I have never seen anyone love like that before." Turning to the man next to him, "Have you?"

Man B - "No"

Rick - "Well, this is the kind of love God has for us and it is the kind of love He wants us to have for others - our wives, family and everyone."

Man B - "Well, no one I know loves like this."

Rick - "What would happen if you loved like this? And what would happen if your whole village loved like this?"

The conversation continued as we talked about how different life would be. They said many problems would be solved. They even talked about how contageous this kind of love would be.

Rick - "This love is very different than what we normally see."

Man A - "Yes, it would be like starting something completely new."

Rick - "Then let's start something complete new!"


Both men agreed and that is what we are working on. What started with some marriages in trouble has enabled Rick to ask some very direct questions of two men who wanted change. We watched the movie FireProof and are using it's book The Love Dare as a guide. God is teaching all of us (yes, me too) about the love He has for us and wants us to have for others.


The Nueva Vida church plants consistently have more women attenders than men. We have talked with the male believers about how to reach men for Christ, they have voiced their view that men are more spiritually closed than women. It is as if it is "easier" for a Dominican woman to follow Christ than for a Dominican man. This is frustrating.

In the United States, Becky and I asked a Colombian pastor for advice on how to reach Latin men. He shared "You need to go to the core. The Latin man wants to be respected, especially by his family and kids. But he has few examples and doesn't know how. Talk to him about this desire and help him see that God can help, and the Latin man will be reached." And with those words of advice, we have been trying just that. Most importantly, God is working. No strategy or program will have eternal significance without God's involvement. And so we are asking God to change the definitions of love, family, and marriage in this society to fit with His will, for His glory.

Please pray for this group!

Thursday, June 17, 2010

A Typical day? What's that?

Many times people ask "What is a typical day like?" It is a hard question to answer because every day is so different. Some days are spent studying and preparing. Today, I am in my office catching up and preparing for tonight's seminary class. Some days are spent working on legal things, like getting our permanent residency. And many days are spent in the villages with the people. Yesterday, was one of those days.

In the morning, Becky and I headed to Boma for a Bible study with some of the leaders and adults from the church there. The church is new and because of varied educational levels and reading abilities, Bible knowledge is limited. So, we have been teaching about the church - it's purpose and mission. Yesterday we talked about the need to equip workers for ministry to children. The Boma church has few children in it and no specific ministry for children. There are a few adults that probably could teach the children but there are no resources. All in all, there was agreement that there should be something for the kids. We need to teach them God's Word.
Becky and I agreed to bring some resources next Wednesday.

We like going to Boma. The road is adventurous and you never know what will happen. Yesterday, about half way back we found ourselves with a flat tire. Fortunately we were on the paved road, past the cliffs and more remote areas and in an area were our cell phone worked. We were a little surprised by the number of Dominicans that stopped asking if they could help. Many seemed to know who we were - not too surprising since we go every Wednesday. Dominicans are great road watchers. The neighborhood watch "system" seems strong. After a while, our friend Alexi arrived and with a pump and we limped back into town. About $1.50 later, our tire was patched and we were off.

In the afternoon, I, Rick, headed out to Montaña. I have been meeting with two men, focusing on the topic or learning how to ¨Love our wives.¨ Slowly, we are working through the book ¨The Love Dare.¨ Weekly God´s Word contrasts itself with Dominican culture. Culturally, it is ok for men to have girlfriends on the side. Culturally, it is ok to openly have a few families, as long as there is support for the children. Culturally, a man is a man because he has many women. Culturally, a man is the boss of the home but has little to do with it. Culturally, a man expects his wife to have food ready for him and if she doesn´t, he can beat her. We are in need of a cultural change and no better place to start, then in the church of Montaña. Please do pray for this study. Willy and Jose Oscar need your prayers. Although not in the study, Manuel and Arjenis need your prayers. Everyone of these men are struggling. Some have made some big mistakes and it is known. But the good thing is, they know they are struggling. Many men in this society give up and just go with the culture. This men are trying to be different. And yes, it is a struggle. Please do pray.

After the small group with the men, I headed to the church and found Damaso and 4 of the ladies of the church preparing for a sale. Periodically, the church raises money by selling used clothes at a very reasonable price.

We then had a time of singing, teaching from God´s Word, and a time of prayer. Two hours later, I was back on my motorcycle heading for home.

It was a great day. Ministry in two locations. Sharing God´s Word and applying it to real life challenges. Is everyday like this...NOPE. But every day is an opportunity to serve the Lord.

Thank you for your prayers for us.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Ministerio Azar-ébyón - Ayudando al Necesitado


Carol begins the day with a Bible story.

Exciting News:
A new ministry has started at one of the church plants. It was created after the church in Buenos Aires visited each house in their community. As they went from house to house, they found some consistent needs and developed a ministry to address those.
The boys are writing what Becky reads to them.

Why?
Because we are created to do good works (Eph. 2:10)
Because God told us to Love one another and we can do that by meeting everyday needs (1 John 3:11, 16-18)
Because as we help others with a selfless love, it is a service unto Jesus Christ (Matt. 25:31-40)
Because they want people to realize that God has met our need (John 3:16)
Reading the story of Creation.

What are they doing?
It's most visible ministry is to children but they have ministries to teens and adults as well. For the children, they have started an after school learning center. For youth and adults, they will be having classes on various topics that have been brought up in the survey. In addition, they will be inviting medical doctors and dentists to give the basic care that many don't get. Their dream is to address needs in 4 areas - Spiritual, Educational, Social, and Physical.
We are very excited about this ministry. It has been birthed and run by Dominicans. Becky and I have helped but the leadership has been Dominican. In some ways, it is a model for how we want to do ministry here. Many ministries are completely run by Americans. This one is not. The vision was developed by the Buenos Aires church while we were in the USA. They were excited to share it with us when we returned and when we heard their plans, we joined in the excitement.
Lots of smiles and kids to love.

This ministry has started. A few weeks ago some friends from Minnesota were here and we spent a morning observing and joining in where they could. This ministry has a lot of needs and for those who visit, there are lots of ways they can join with the ministry. For the children, the program appears similar to a VBS. But as you go and help, you will see that it's focus is much greater. We love that it is on-going and reaches people of all ages.
Please do pray for the ministry. It meets Monday, Wednesday and Friday, morning and afternoon. They are struggling to find workers in the morning. Please pray for this. Also, they are trying to build a support base by asking other Dominican churches to help. The response has been good but there are still needs. And when we were there, we saw that they have some space needs. Praise God, their vision is bigger than their facilities. Becky and I think this is something that the North American church can help with. A plan is being made for the property. Pray that God would provide the reasources for this ministry.

Friday, April 02, 2010

It isn't easy, you know.

It isn't easy, you know.

This is a familiar saying in the Dominican Republic. It is often said at the end of a story of hardship, or by way of explaining how the lack of water, power, gas, money, transportation, or food complicates life.
I think if Jesus were Dominican he would have said this to the many who came asking for healing and salvation and those desiring to follow Him. It isn’t easy, you know, rich young ruler:go and sell everything you have and follow Me. It isn’t easy, you know, Nicodemus, to be born again as an adult. It isn’t easy, you know, Peter to resist denying Me. It isn’t easy, you know, woman at the well, to leave the man you are with and follow Me.
The church in Montana is finding that it isn’t easy. In recent months members have faced numerous challenges. One of the older members fell ill with encephalitis and continues to suffer with seizures and weakness. One family is in crisis following marital infidelity. Another member is facing up to the need to end an immoral relationship of 15 years. A single mom is struggling to parent as Christ desires her to in the face of criticism from an alcoholic family member who lives with her. These are only the “major” trials, I won’t mention some of the minor squabbles that exist between individuals.
It isn’t easy, you know! But is there hope? Will this church implode as Satan attacks and seeks to destroy? Jesus said, “ UPON THIS ROCK I WILL BUILD MY CHURCH, AND THE GATES OF HADES WILL NOT OVERCOME IT.” (Matthew 16:18)
I recently listened to a sermon on Matthew 16 by John Piper. He made so many excellent points, but one that sticks out is: I will build MY church. Jesus owns it and does it. As I look at the ladies in my discipleship group who are facing giants of sin and hardship in their lives right now, I rest in Jesus’ commitment to them as a body. HE will build HIS church in Montana and the gate of Hades will not overcome it.
I am also reminded of Paul’s words in Philippians 1:6: “being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” We are so blessed to trust in His faithfulness. Please pray with us for these tender young believers as they grow through trials as a body.

Upper Jimenoa Waterfall

Paul and I hiked to the Upper Jimenoa Falls. Here is a short video of Paul chasing fish and a the falls. It is a beautiful place that can be reached with a little effort.


Guide books and locals say that this fall was filmed in Jurassic Park. I think
that is a rumor, as it is not named as a film location for the movies.

Our Dogs - Dylan & Keela



Recently we got a camcorder. It will be very helpful for sharing our life and ministry. I posted this video as a test. For the techies...the camcorder is the Kodak Zi8. It is a very basic but should meet many of our needs.

Saturday, February 13, 2010

How do you teach without books?

I, Becky, LOVE to read! I am always reading several books, both fiction and non-fiction. When I need to find something out, more often than not I google it and read several articles on the subject. When we lived in the U.S. I was a heavy library user. But I am learning that I am not a typical American or a typical world citizen.

Most people in the world learn orally. This means they talk to others to get the information, skills, and help they need. Although literacy rates appear high, people's reliance on the written word is actually quite low. This is because their tendency is to learn in a form most natural to them. In the U.S. only about 13% of the population use reading as their preferred way to learn. This statistic is similar in Canada and Europe. If this is true in developed countries, what about countries like the Dominican Republic?

When we began teaching the Bible in the rural villages, we assumed that most people had a basic ability to read and that with the Spanish NIV Bible, they could read a passage and understand it. We quickly discovered that even if the passage could be read, it was unlikely that it would be understood. Many of the younger people could read, but most of the older folks had difficulty. Some were embarrassed about this and it deterred them from attending the studies. Reading certainly was and is a problem but there was more to it. We noticed that most Dominicans prefer to use their network of friends and family to gain information, solve problems, and make decisions. Their process of learning was obviously different. Teaching them in the same format we had used in the United States would probably not be very effective.

So what to do? Well being the literate people that we are, we got on the internet and began searching for answers. We had heard about missionaries working in "oral cultures" where the language is not even written down or there is little access to education. As we searched, we learned that missionaries around the world, even in developed countries, are using oral methods to evangelize and disciple people. They are finding that when they teach using oral methods a much greater percentage are able to understand and share what had been taught to others.

Oral methods are using stories, dialogue, pictures, films, and drama to communicate Biblical truths. Orality is about much more than whether a person prefers to read or hear information. It is a way of life. Literate people tend to organize their lives and think in a 1, 2, 3 fashion. Oral people rely on their memory of events, stories and people for information. Their knowledge and wisdom is housed in stories. Think about the power of a story. People enter into story intellectually and emotionally. Stories are easy to share and to pass on. No wonder Jesus taught so much using stories and parables.

In September we attended a training conference called "Simply the Story." We learned how to lead inductive Bible studies without using any written material. First we learned a Bible story well so we could tell it in a dramatic fashion. Next we taught the story to our small group and finally lead them through a question/answer discussion to help them discover spiritual observations and applications from the story. We are very excited to bring this method back to the Dominican Republic, use it, and train Dominicans to use it.

If you would like to learn more about orality we recommend the following website:

http://www.story4all.com/

Story 4 all is a podcast we listen to regularly and love it for the information and encouragement it bring us. Under the resources tab, you will find links to several organizations that are using oral methods in missions.

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

A Wedding to Celebrate


Upon our return to Jarabacoa, Rick ran into a couple from Montaña, a village where we have spent a lot of time. Wily and AnaMaria invited us to their wedding the following Sunday afternoon. Becky was thrilled when Rick brought home the news.

Willy and Ana Maria have two darling boys, Wilmar, age 7, and Wilfred, age 2. Their names proudly announce who their daddy is! Willy and Ana Maria have been together for about 10 years and last summer had talked some about getting ¨married.¨ Now, in the eyes of the village they are a married couple. They have a home together, children together, they are faithful to one another, what more could you ask for in a couple?

It seems most rural Dominicans don't get legally or religiously married for a variety of reasons. For one in the D.R. getting married means going to a judge and paying money to be legally married and then being married in a church, publicly. All this costs money which is sorely needed for daily living. Plus, once you do all this you are REALLY committed and Dominicans tell me they like to keep their options open. We could list a number of other reasons, but you get the idea.

As Christians, we believe there is value in being REALLY married. God instituted this in Genesis and blesses it. It gives honor to both husband and wife to publicly pledge their love and loyalty to one another. Legally, it provides protection for the children and parents in the family in case the marriage breaks up or one parent dies. Again, we could list many more benefits to marriage versus "free unions" as they are called here.

Some time while we were gone, Willy and Ana Maria sought marriage counseling with Pastor Bill Hanson, pastor of the Jarabacoa New Life Church. During this time he encouraged them to get married and they agreed.

The wedding, as you can see from the pictures, had all the trimmings, down to nervous groom, a tardy bride and a ringbearer (Wilmar) who just about forgot his duty!

For us, it was the fulfillment of our prayers that many of the couples in Montaña living in "free unions" would choose to get married. Many are new believers and make lifestyle changes as they grow in their understanding of how to follow Christ. They stop drinking, they begin to dress modestly, they learn to control their anger and forgive. They need good models of what a Christian wife and a Christian husband are like. In Montaña they are seeing this in Damaso and Mirian. Damaso is the church planter sent from the main church. His wife and children faithfully attend the Tuesday evening service and encourage the believers.

On a sadder note, in one of the other church plants, we returned to find that the father of a young family who had been faithfully attending church (as a family) had just up and left with little explanation and no indication about where he was going or if he would be back. Often when this happens, the man has run away with a new girlfriend. We don't know if this is the case in this situation. What we know is this. There is a young mother with four children who has been abandoned. We spoke with the church and although the church is small, they will be looking after this young mom and her children.

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Intensive Spanish

This morning I woke up at 3:30 am to get ready to be picked up at 4 am. I needed to be at the airport in time for my 7:30 am flight. I had spent the last two weeks alone in Guatemala. My purpose was to get a refresher course in Spanish. I had been told that spending 4 months in the United States would set me back in Spanish and so I decided I wanted to do something to combat this. The last two weeks have been focused on learning Spanish. During this time, I spoke little English. I met daily with a teacher. I spent the majority of my time, in a small simple hotel room studying. So what happened? I leave so thankful that I did this. I feel like my ability in Spanish has taken a huge step forward. Right now, I am sitting on the plane. In about 40 minutes I will be in the Dominican Republic and I am excited to use what I have Iearned, and to continue learning.


Thank you for your prayer. Thank you to those who reached out to my family. They are in Minnesota and will join me in the Dominican Republic in a few days. It was difficult for us to be apart, but we all felt it was the best thing to do.


Also, thank you so much for your support to us while we were in the United States. Many of you reached out to us and shared our lives with us. We are overwhelmed by the acts of kindness and the love that has been shown to us. We were so blessed to be in so many of your homes. There were wonderful times of sharing God’s faithfulness. As we hoped to encourage you with our stories, we were blessed to hear your stories as well. How blessed we are to be children of a living God. Thank you!


The Good Missionary

Leaving Antigua, Guatemala this morning, I had a quick but interesting experience. The driver had just picked me up and we were moving through the town on the cobblestone streets. All of a sudden, I saw something in the middle of the road. At first, I thought it was a dog but as we came closer, it realized it was a man. He was screaming something I could not make out. The driver drove on by and we each looked at each other with a surprised look. We continued and I didn’t give it another thought. Sitting on the airplane...I started to think about that man. What was wrong with him? Was he beat up? Was he one of the beggers I had regularly seen who was missing a limb? Was he drunk and he woke up just as the car was nearing him? Was he really in trouble? And then...my questions got more personal...Why didn’t I stop? Or why didn't I suggest to the driver that we stop? Or why didn’t we call he police if we were afraid that it was a trap? I started to feel guilty. Then even worse...I remembered the Story of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37). I have always looked down at the two that passed by without helping. How aweful of them to pass by this man who is in need. Now I find that I am one of those men.


I sit convicted. I am guilty.


Our family is moving back to a place where we see needs every day. There are many challenges. Physical things that could be prevented. Emotionally it is painful to see so many people in need. Of course, we want to help and we do help. But knowing how to help....to help in a way that REALLY helps....is something we continually work through. Each situation is different. And we have the best thing we can do is to bring these needs to God, asking God to give us His wisdom for the situation. Every thing we do, we need to bring it to God and let it sift through His fingers of love.* I know if take seriously the idea that God will guide us, He will. And He will lead us in this area as well.


I invite you to pray for us in this area. Pray that our first response to each situation would be to speak with God. First...not last response.


*I want to thank God for dear sister, Tammy Orth, for teaching me this. Tammy is now with the Lord but she had brain cancer and she talked when people asked her how she dealt with it, often she would talk about how everything that has been sent her way, has had to make its way through the fingers of God. And she was tell you "those fingers are fingers of LOVE. We were blessed to know Tammy. God used her to teach us much.

Friday, January 15, 2010

A Farewell to the USA

Well, we had hoped to blog a lot about our time in the America, but we didn't. Our time was so hectic that it just didn't happen.

Rick has already left the U.S. He flew to Guatemala on January 2 for two weeks of intensive Spanish study and flies January 16 to the Dominican Republic. The kids and I fly January 18--we covet your prayers for safe, efficient air travel!

As we pack up, we face the challenge of smashing our belongings into the 8 fify pound bags the airlines allow us. There are so many decisions to make. There are so many necessities and so many "extras" we want to bring.

This week the kids and I spent precious last days with friend in Rochester. We left with sadness and eagerness to get in the air and back home to the Dominican Republic (D.R.). We are taking with us many, many memories which no airline can weigh, scan, or restrict!

So many have asked how our time in the U.S. has been, and I often say it is like going to a smorgasbord with a teaspoon. You are overwhelmed by the variety, richness, and appeal while only getting of little taste of anything. Whether it was time with friends and family, visits to favorite old hunting grounds, or site-seeing it was gobble it down in a short period and move on. But we are FULL of memories and experiences that we will cherish as we return home.

There are SO many people we didn't get to spend enough time with and SO many things we didn't get to do. But we tried to enjoy every experience to the fullest. We were overly blessed by the generosity of many who opened their homes for us, gave us needed warm clothes, some specific equipment for our ministry, and spoiled our kids with treats and outings. As we faced a large support deficit, God opened his treasure chest and moved many to join our support team with what He had given them and we are once again fully supported. For all this we are full of thanksgiving.

We feel blessed that we have not had too many reverse culture shock break downs, though they have happened. When we moved to the Dominican Republic we used a lot of new skills from missionary training to adapt to the culture and we have used those same skills to re-adapt to the United States. Now we will have to use those skills to re-adapt to the D.R.

As we go back, the kids will be readjusting to traditional school, we will once again live with rolling electric black outs, poor roads, lots of noise and, hardest of all WARM SUNNY DAYS!!!! Yeah, that's right, don't pity the missionaries, we love our life!